👗 Dear Ladies, Wear Your Skirt

👗 Dear Ladies, Wear Your Skirt.

(Literally and Figuratively)

For too long, many of us have been wearing the pants—because we had to. Because someone failed. Because life demanded it. Because somewhere along the line, we believed strength meant becoming the main character in every single story.

But let’s have a real moment:

A fish was never created to climb a tree. And when it tries, it exhausts itself.

But put it in water—watch it glide, thrive, dance… effortlessly.

That’s design. That’s divine intention.

We were created to be helpmates—not in weakness, but in wisdom.

Not to shrink, but to shine in our lane.

Not to hustle for every piece, but to receive with grace.

Recently, I made a choice:

👗 I started wearing skirts—everyday.

👑 I decided to unlearn the performance of over-functioning.

🪞 I chose to return home… to softness. To elegance. To my true power.

And guess what? I travelled with three male colleagues. Normally, I’d be in my slacks, dragging my luggage, “holding my own.” But this time, I wore a skirt… and literally wore dresses and skirts throughout that trip to remind myself of my new intention. And something magical happened.

They didn’t see me as less—

They saw me as precious.

They carried my bags.

They made sure I was seated first.

They honored the queen that had always been there—hidden behind ‘strong woman’ armor.

Ladies, this is not about weakness.

This is about alignment.

The world responds to you when you respond to your true self.

So, here’s a gentle nudge from me to you,

Take off the pants.

Wear the skirt.

Not just in fabric, but in spirit.

Lean into your original design.

Because when you do…

✨ You will thrive effortlessly.

 

Dee🥰

SoftIsStrong💃